Recently on Twitter @problogger tweeted this:
“thinking of de friending everyone on facebook that I don’t know in real life and making it a personal page (http://bit.ly/9SdY1z) thoughts?”
To which I retweeted and responded, “I have been considering doing the same.”
Of course, Darren Rowse is wildly popular (for good reason), already having maxed out his friend limit on Facebook at 5000, while I have a mere 292 friends. He is completely out of my league, but I could relate to his desire to separate one’s online/blogging presence from his personal one.
For one thing, you will be hard-pressed to find a photo of Hubby’s face on this site, as per his request. But, I frequently post photos of him on my Facebook page. After all, we have family and friends who use Facebook to keep in touch with us and they appreciate seeing current photos of the family.
While I don’t have very many people on my Facebook friends list that I haven’t met face-to-face, there are a few that I talk to regularly on Twitter that I consider “friends.” I waver back and forth sometimes wondering what criteria I should use for the accepting of friends on Facebook. I have friends that fit into these categories:
- Family
- Close friends
- Twitter/Blog friends that I have met in person
- Twitter/Blog friends that I regularly talk to but have not met in person
- People I have met somewhere along the way but don’t see anymore (former co-workers, old classmates, people I attended church with in the past, etc.)
I am thinking of de-friending some of the folks that probably do not care much about me personally, but merely requested my “friendship” to add another notch on their friend count. Of course, I am concerned that purging my friends list will offend people — but I am reevaluating my entire philosophy on sharing details of my life on the Internet. That was prompted by yet another tweet, subsequent to my comment about Facebook. This one, by @kimonostereo who asked, “will you stop blogging?”
That question needs its very own blog entry entirely. To be continued…






