It has been a bear of a week.

We had some health scares which sent my emotions running down the same dark road that was reminiscent of those trying times I traversed with my mom. Dad has always been the strong and healthy one. At 78, he still volunteers regularly, doing gardening and other tasks around the Okinawan Center and occasionally helps maintain the church grounds. He walks the dog three times a day. I thought surely I would find some reprieve from the medical drama, at least for a while.

He complained of a sharp abdominal pain in his lower left side. His appetite hasn’t been the same ever since Mom passed away and he seemed to have less energy than usual. When he mentioned these symptoms to the doctor, he ordered a CT scan. We didn’t expect to find anything, but when the doctor called me to schedule a follow-up MRI, I was concerned. They had found a 2.5 cm “something” near his pancreas. The doctor said he could either give me the results of his MRI on the phone or we could schedule an appointment. I stated that I preferred to receive a phone call. “What if I have to tell you it’s cancer? Would you be okay with hearing that over the phone?”

Ugh, the “C” word. I told him,  yes, I would prefer to have the news sooner rather than later.

Google can be your best friend or worst enemy. I should never google possible medical conditions. I discovered that pancreatic cancer has one of the worst survival rates and prognosis generally not good. I shed tears over the possibility that Dad might have cancer. His MRI was scheduled for Friday, Sept. 14 and I prayed at every opportunity for him. Actually, praying is probably not even the best way to describe it. I pleaded. I begged. I cried out to God. In spite of uncertain circumstances, I know He is always in control.

Dad’s blood pressure had been consistently running on the low end of the scale. Not dangerously low, but low enough that the doctor felt that reducing his blood pressure medication would be a good idea. So, he instructed us to cut the dose in half.

About a week later, I started seeing Dad’s blood pressure trending upward. From numbers in the 118/54 range to pressures that started going 150 and above. On Thursday afternoon, his blood pressure topped 213/70. I called his doctor and took him to the Emergency Room where they gave him 20 MG Lisinopril (same Rx he had been taking) and had him wait until it kicked in. When his systolic pressure reading was under 170, they released him. We spent about 4 hours in the ER that night.

The funny thing is that Dad’s fantastic ER nurse Sunny recognized me from my blog. What a small world! :)

The following morning his blood pressure was back up to 190′s, we saw his primary care physician and he changed his blood pressure medication. After that visit, we went straight to the hospital to get his MRI.

The time between the MRI and the doctor’s phone call was brief, perhaps only about two hours. From the sound of the doctor’s greeting on the phone, I surmised that he had good news for me. And he did. The “something” they saw was not a tumor. It was a blood vessel. Harmless. No cancer!

PRAISE GOD!

Instant relief. I thanked the doctor profusely and gave Dad the awesome news.

Now, we are just trying to stabilize his blood pressure. His numbers were good this morning. I am just praying that the new meds do not give him any side effects or drop his pressure too low.

If nothing else, this was a wake up call to cherish every day with my loved ones. Life is too short. Our days are numbered. Let us not waste a single one.

 

6 Responses to Caregiver Rollercoaster

  1. Scott T. says:

    Your last paragraph sums it up. More than I’d like to admit, I take time with family and friends for granted. Thank you for sharing and for the reminder.

    Glad your Dad has gotten past the initial medical scare.

  2. Jeannette Hayashida says:

    So happy to hear your Dad received good health news. Pancreatic cancer is a stealthy, vicious disease. I lost my brother and mother to it.
    Yes! It is most important to remember to slow down and take time to spend with all your loved ones. And remember to be kind to yourself.

  3. liz says:

    I’m so glad for your Dad…and you that it was a harmless “something.” What a rollercoaster indeed. Now I understand the need for the Coke and a cupcake! Take care and God bless.

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  5. Joyce Ga says:

    Great site. I understand the caregiver issues. Thank GOD I have found great neighbors to jump in when things go nuts! Glad your dad is ok.
    Joyce Ga.

  6. slamet says:

    May God always gives health and healing for your dad …

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