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Aloha, I'm Donna, known everywhere on the Internet as "Champuru." I'm a Christian, blissfully wedded to my perfect match (the yang to my yin) of 16 years and a stay-at-home mom to my miracle baby, born in October 2008. Living life in Hawaii, less than 5 miles from my hometown, seeking balance in my pursuit of family, faith, recreation, and rest. Read more on the About page.

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Easy Ozoni Recipe

Flashback from 2007. Gosh, that was a bad hair day if I ever saw one.

I captured my in-laws’ “secret family recipe” for easy ozoni, a new year’s tradition in our family, for posterity. Enjoy and happy new year!

Snug as a Bug

2008-12-29

As a new mom, my life is full of firsts.  Yesterday was the first time Baby Champuru has fallen ill.  I knew this “first” was inevitable, but I was certainly not looking forward to it and would have gladly postponed it until she was, say, eighteen years old or so. Unfortunately, not everything goes as planned and at the tender age of three months, baby has caught a virus.

Symptoms include congestion, wet cough, runny nose, and sneezing.  Thankfully, no fever.  She also started having a bit of loose stools today.  Not awful, but not normal.  We were able to get her in to see the pediatrician this morning. He concluded that baby has a viral infection and thus prescribed liquid Albuterol for her to take “as needed” for her cough and wheezing. All we can do is treat the symptoms as we wait for the virus to run its course, which he expects will be about 7-10 days.  I’m sure it will be the longest 7-10 days of my life.

The doctor recommended having her sleep with her head elevated to help with the congestion.  He suggested having her sleep in her infant carrier.  Unforutnately, baby is rather picky about where she will fall asleep.  We tried the infant seat to no avail and knew that the carrier would yield the same results.  She doesn’t like being strapped in and both of those options would require us to do so to prevent her from falling out of the seat.  She’s getting quite good at using her legs to bridge and scoot, so we’re being even more careful about where we put her down to sleep.

Then Hubby remembered how comfortable she seems to be in her stroller and decided to give it a try.  She took to it immediately and fell asleep peacefully, her head slightly elevated as recommended by the doctor.  I still don’t feel entirely comfortable having her sleep anywhere except in her crib or co-sleeper, but hopefully this will be a safe option that also helps speed her recovery by easing her congestion so that this “first” cold can be over sooner rather than later.

Baby’s First Christmas

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Darkness in Paradise

Since my last entry, we’ve had excitement, but not the good kind.  The day after Christmas, another storm passed over the islands, this time bringing thunder and lightning along with torrents of rain.  Just after dinner, the lights starting flickering and I knew that meant a power outage was most likely coming soon.  I shut down my computer (although it’s on a UPS) and washed the dishes, finishing just before the electricity went out at 6:45 pm.

We were prepared with emergency lights/flashlights, purchased recently from Costco, which switched on as soon as we lost power.  Hubby turned on the radio and we listened to KSSK for the latest news on the island-wide blackout.  It took Hawaiian Electric 15 hours to restore power to my home at around 9:30 am on Saturday. Lucky for me, most of that time was spent sleeping.  According to the KITV website, there are still some unfortunate residents without power today.

My cable and internet did not fare as well, however.  Apparently, the power outage wreaked havoc for Oceanic Time Warner as well.  My digital cable TV service wasn’t restored until today (Sunday) at around 4 pm.  I’m not entirely sure when my Internet came back because I had problems with my wireless router, which resulted in me having to do some troubleshooting while baby was napping.  I ended up restoring it to factory settings and go through the configuration process again, which luckily did the trick. 

Electronic issues aside, I was also tending to a sick baby today.  Apparently, she caught Daddy’s cold, as she’s developed a phlegmy cough and a runny nose.  Thankfully, she didn’t have a fever.  I had to use the nasal aspirator on Baby Champuru a few times today, much to her dismay.  I’m sure I’d hate it, too, as it probably feels like your brain being sucked out through your nostrils.  I’ll be calling the doctor’s office first thing tomorrow morning, begging them to squeeze her in for an appointment.

I’m hoping for a less “exciting” new year’s holiday.

Too much stimuli, meltdown in progress

2008-12-24b

Gatherings at the in-laws’ house are always full of laughter, excited children running around underfoot, delicious homemade food, and good times. Tonight was no exception.

Baby Champuru, the only child, isn’t accustomed to all that noise and excitement.  Our home is quiet and peaceful, except for the occasional canine outburst from Tobi the Wonder Dog.  Since her arrival on October 4, baby has been mostly sequestered in the house as we are following doctor’s orders to the letter and keeping her out of public places until she’s three months old.  She’s been going to church with us on Sundays since the beginning of December, but aside from that, she hasn’t been around many people yet.

There’s nothing like a new baby in the family to stir the excitement of grandparents, uncles, aunties, and cousins alike.  Everyone wants to carry her, talk to her, and touch her.  Her young cousins are in her face, tugging at her feet, touching her hands. Surrounded by a sea of unfamiliar faces and overwhelmed by the unusually high decibel level, she quickly became over-stimulated and had a major meltdown.  Loud shrieks accompanied large tears that ran down her plump little cheeks.  She did not calm down until we took her into my mother-in-law’s bedroom, away from everyone, where it was nice and quiet.

Aunties and grandma took turns carrying her throughout the night.  It was a great way for her to get used to being with others and a nice break for Hubby and I.

As is the tradition, we visit the in-laws again on Christmas morning to open presents together.  Although she’s too young to enjoy opening her own gifts, I hope that Baby Champuru will be happy in the morning after a good night’s sleep so she can have a merry Christmas.

Precious Baby Moments

 

2008-12-23

Baby Champuru will be 12 weeks old this Saturday.  I know it’s so cliche, but she really is growing up fast.  It is amazing to watch her develop, as she is learning and discovering something new everyday.  She’s becoming much more interactive: with people and with objects.  Here are some things that have changed since week 10:

  • Smiles come much more easily and she enjoys cooing, even to herself. We have great conversations while she’s on the changing table getting her poopy diapers changed.  She lets out enthusiastic yelps of delight when we play with her or sing her favorite song, “Itsy Bitsy Spider.”  Sometimes she even laughs and when she does, it is absolutely contagious.
  • Grabbing things is fun!  She’s starting to use her hands a lot more now.  She enjoys grabbing fabrics and holding them against her face to feel its texture.  Now that she’s using her hands, we purchased a baby rattle and plastic keys that she enjoys playing with.
  • Less binky, more fingers.  We rarely use the pacifier with her as she is having less inconsolable crying fits like she was in the early days.  She still loves to suck on her fingers, though. I hope this won’t develop into a thumbsucking habit later on.
  • She seems to fuss less, except when she’s hungry.  If she’s hungry and I’m changing her diaper or her clothes, that is often the shortest path to a major meltdown.  Perhaps we have a future foodie on our hands.  The girl is a chowhound!  Don’t stand between her and her next meal!
  • Independence!  She is becoming more independent, as she is requiring less of my undivided attention. She is able to play happily with her Gymini Super Deluxe lights and music 3-D activity gym while I sit on the floor next to her and eat a meal in relative leisure.
  • Most notably, tummy time isn’t so traumatic anymore.  In fact, Baby Champuru can hold her head up now and she doesn’t get distressed and frustrated as easily when I put her on her stomach.

I wish I could record every precious baby moment so I can replay these sweet memories when she’s in high school and telling me how totally “uncool” I am.

Jiji and Baba

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Baba, Baby Champuru, Jiji

Grandparents evoke a warm and fuzzy feeling of summer afternoons baking chocolate chip cookies with grandma, jaunts to the ice cream shop for a double-scoop with grandpa, unexpected gifts to spoil you, and getting away with things your parents would never allow you to do.  These are things I never had a chance to experience.  My maternal grandmother and paternal grandfather passed on before I was born.  My maternal grandfather passed away when I was a year old and my paternal grandmother died when I was four.  

I have only one memory of my paternal grandmother, shortly before her death.  She had been ill for quite some time and was sequestered in a bedroom in my aunt’s house.  I stood at her bedside with my mother as obaachan (grandma) handed me an envelope.  She spoke in Japanese as my mother translated.  “This is money to buy a kimono so that you can take Okinawan dance lessons.”  Our family was not rich, as we struggled to make ends meet on one income while my mom stayed home to raise me, so the money was a welcome gift and provided me the opportunity to have a nice kimono and obi (belt) to start my lessons with.  Obaachan was pleased that I was taking an interest in our culture and everytime I wore that kimono, I danced my best to make her proud because I knew she was watching me from heaven.  I wished that she could have seen me dance in this life.

Now that I have my own daughter, I am so pleased that she has all four grandparents to watch her grow up.  I pray everyday that they will stay healthy for many more years to come so that Baby Champuru will have countless fond memories of them.  

I’ve started referring to my own parents as Jiji and Baba for Baby Champuru’s sake to differentiate them from Hubby’s parents, who are called Grandpa and Grandma.  Jiji = Ojiisan = Grandpa. Baba = Obaachan = Grandma. 

How do you differentiate your parents from your in-laws to your children?

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