Feb 15 2008
…And he kicked me out
The Snowflake’s second portrait
Today was my second ultrasound. This time, Hubby was in town and was able to see the baby’s heartbeat for the first time. (He was traveling when we had the first ultrasound.) The doc says I’m at 8 weeks and 5 days according to the ultrasound, which is strange because exactly 2 weeks ago, I was told that I was 6 weeks and 3 days. Whatever the case, my due date is September 24, 2008.
I am happy to report that the doctor says the Snowflake has a strong heartbeat! But, he always makes it clear that I am still “not out of the woods yet” and warned me that many miscarriages happen between the 4th and the 12th weeks of pregnancy. I will be taking it very easy at least for the next 4 weeks or so.
Then, he said, “it’s safe to start telling people once you hit the 12th week.” Ooops. Too late. The whole world, including the Internet, already know. But, it’s okay. I always meant for my journey to be open and transparent, no matter what the outcome. But, we’re keeping all things in prayer for the Snowflake, that I’ll be able to carry baby to full term and that he/she will be born healthy and strong.
Doc congratulated us and said, “okay, now I’m kicking you out. Make an appointment with your ob/gyn in two weeks.”
“You mean that’s it? This is my last appointment with you?” I asked, incredulous. I thought he’d be monitoring my progress at least through the end of my first trimester. I felt a tinge of sadness. After all, doc and his staff had been a big part of my life for the past two years. Had I known this was my last appointment, I would have brought the staff a goodie basket as a thank you for all their help and care during my journey.
“That’s right, I’m kicking you out,” he grinned as he gave me a warm hug. “Good job, guys. I’ll see you again in about a year and six months. One year to rest… that should be about the right time.”
A year and six months. I can’t imagine going through another in vitro cycle. But who knows, maybe after experiencing the joy of having the Snowflake, I just might reconsider.
[tags]ultrasound, 8 week ultrasound, pregnancy, IVF, in vitro fertilization, infertility treatment[/tags]
A 30-something Christian girl, blissfully wedded to her perfect match (the yang to her yin) of 14 years. Living life in Hawaii, less than 5 miles from her hometown, a slave to her mortgage payment, but seeking balance in her pursuit of family, faith, recreation, and rest.
Donna, you’re incredible. Take care and hope you have a quick recovery from your cold.
Ohhh! Congrats again. S/he is beautiful. I keep thinking of Snowflake as a He, but I will be happy to be proved wrong
“…my due date is September 24…” - that was my little miracle’s due date!
Get lots of rest and feel better soon! *hugs*
No THAT looks like a baby! Yes, good job guys! And Mr. Donna, congrats on seeing your Snowflake up close and personal for the first time!
Hugs!
Donna, This is such wonderful news! I remember seeing my own son at that stage. Just take good care of yourself… this is the time to pamper yourself. I really enjoyed my pregnancy. Take lots of naps if you have to. For some reason, it prepares you for the least amount of sleep you’ll ever have in the months following the birth of the baby. Congratulations to both you! Gambatte kudasai!
What a lovely snowflake! Can’t get enough of your happy news! Get well soon.
Wow, I still marvel at this little miracle. Thanks again for sharing Donna, and take care.
Hi Donna! Congratulations!!! Just dropped by to visit your site. I totally heart-felt tearing when I realized you having this miracle! I followed along your blog since 2003, but then I was off following when I started working full time. Finally, right now I got some time to catch up! This is a true blessing from God!
This really amazing! 
It really verifies that God is answering our prayers in many ways.